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Female Fetishizers: There are a few handfuls of these men on all BF sites, who through their male privileged birthright believe its perfectly acceptable to co-opt Femme identity.
They are too self hating and outwardly hating of female/ness.
They remain in womens spaces while claiming "male identity" because lesbians are the only group (through intimidation) to tolerate their presence, most are much too afraid to actually "live" as real men.
If anything, the butch-femme dynamic heterosexual relationship/gender models. Girly women aren't meant to want women who want to look like men.
I recently had several young Femmes email me asking about the accuracy of the butch/femme.coms/nets/orgs/planets/UKs etc.